<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2291200544675330796.post4379458553170289726..comments</id><updated>2009-12-19T12:44:37.475-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Jump off the Bridge: 5 Rules for Surviving in NYC</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://jumpoffthebridge.com/feeds/4379458553170289726/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2291200544675330796/4379458553170289726/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jumpoffthebridge.com/2009/12/5-rules-for-surviving-in-nyc.html'/><author><name>frau sally benz</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01054413520223145494</uri><email>frausally@gmail.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>3</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2291200544675330796.post-8444125211514755872</id><published>2009-12-19T12:44:37.475-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-19T12:44:37.475-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Good extra rules!!</title><content type='html'>Good extra rules!!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2291200544675330796/4379458553170289726/comments/default/8444125211514755872'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2291200544675330796/4379458553170289726/comments/default/8444125211514755872'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jumpoffthebridge.com/2009/12/5-rules-for-surviving-in-nyc.html?showComment=1261244677475#c8444125211514755872' title=''/><author><name>frau sally benz</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01054413520223145494</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01452532175808110409'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://jumpoffthebridge.com/2009/12/5-rules-for-surviving-in-nyc.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2291200544675330796.post-4379458553170289726' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2291200544675330796/posts/default/4379458553170289726' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2291200544675330796.post-7225878099997224274</id><published>2009-12-16T19:49:05.896-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-16T19:49:05.896-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Some other rules:

* Don't be afraid to make frien...</title><content type='html'>Some other rules:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* Don&amp;#39;t be afraid to make friends with your neighbors. Sure, they might be the drug dealers, prostitutes, and murderers that your mom and dad warned you about, but wouldn&amp;#39;t that be more reason to have them on your side?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* When confronted with a group of surly and obnoxiously loud and profane teenagers, take a deep breath and remember that you were probably like them some time ago. You weren&amp;#39;t? Then surely you had friends that were that way. No? Then keep your distance. You don&amp;#39;t have experience with riled-up teenagers; you&amp;#39;re under-qualified for trying out your luck in this city. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* Never be afraid to run away and/or scream. Seriously. Don&amp;#39;t worry about your neighbors, or how it might make you look, or whether or not you&amp;#39;re being judgmental by believing that the guy behind you is following you. Speed up, speak up, make a scene. Do whatever it takes to get noticed by on-lookers, get help, or elude the would-be predator.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2291200544675330796/4379458553170289726/comments/default/7225878099997224274'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2291200544675330796/4379458553170289726/comments/default/7225878099997224274'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jumpoffthebridge.com/2009/12/5-rules-for-surviving-in-nyc.html?showComment=1261010945896#c7225878099997224274' title=''/><author><name>mistressmom</name><uri>http://mistressmom.wordpress.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://jumpoffthebridge.com/2009/12/5-rules-for-surviving-in-nyc.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2291200544675330796.post-4379458553170289726' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2291200544675330796/posts/default/4379458553170289726' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2291200544675330796.post-7756557332108599267</id><published>2009-12-14T09:02:12.647-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-14T09:02:12.647-05:00</updated><title type='text'>#1 for me is a rule right here in little ol' Roano...</title><content type='html'>#1 for me is a rule right here in little ol&amp;#39; Roanoke, VA. Even when I&amp;#39;m with my cis male partner, I look straight ahead and do not make eye contact, particularly when I&amp;#39;m dressed in a revealing way.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2291200544675330796/4379458553170289726/comments/default/7756557332108599267'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2291200544675330796/4379458553170289726/comments/default/7756557332108599267'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://jumpoffthebridge.com/2009/12/5-rules-for-surviving-in-nyc.html?showComment=1260799332647#c7756557332108599267' title=''/><author><name>RMJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14239084819919682523</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://jumpoffthebridge.com/2009/12/5-rules-for-surviving-in-nyc.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2291200544675330796.post-4379458553170289726' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2291200544675330796/posts/default/4379458553170289726' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>